Mental Improvement Benefit

Stopped dating to mentally improve my self, it has been a year and a half since I took a break from constantly worrying due to breaking up with my ex. I wasn't in the right mental mentality and was mainly just scared while others dated around me I would be left behind. Around the end of 2023,'specifically September I started having a crush on this one guy. I never knew I would like him and infact I didn't want to rush whatever was happening. 5-7 months later after I knew I was ready this man asked me out with not only this box of chocolates but a think of flowers as well. I was scared the first week, and he knew that. Turns out all of our beliefs are agreed on, we have made rules that are not controlling btw but just simple. We even made an agreement that since both of our red flags were being people pleaser to just look at eachother when we felt uncomfortable so the other can help. Truly a blessed relationship.